Sexual monogamy, esp. female sexual monogamy, is awful and against human nature. One can be monogamous at heart and still enjoy the fruits of this earth. Why should a confident married lady not enjoy the occasional hunk? Monogamy makes her boring, and boring is the worst for any relationship. I'm married since 27 years to a monogamous wife, and if there is one thing that I complain about her, it's her monogamy.