Firstly, sex when drunk is great. And though I wouldn't recommend it for the first time with a partner, I would recommend it after you are comfortable. Frankly the actual question to someone will you have sex with me, does not happen. Women don't ever ask it of a guy, and a guy almost never asks it of women. Sure this is a great idea doctor. But it gives a false impression of what to expect. And will likely have lots of young people think they are being raped if they don't say yes out loud.